Anxiety in the Family System

When my wife and I were raising our two sons, we noticed the oldest was struggling with anxiety issues.  We took him to a psychologist, and after a couple of sessions, she said, “Don’t bring him back.  You are wasting your money.  I can’t get him to talk to me.”  My...

Avoidance Allows Fear to Grow

When I was a child/adolescent, I was diagnosed with a “nervous stomach.” Fifty years ago, I don’t know how much my doctor knew about the correlation between anxiety and the body. My doctor never used the word “anxiety” to describe my condition, nor was I ever offered...

Bringing Some Order to Your Chaos May be a Breath Away

Not long ago I played a matching card game with my five-year-old granddaughter. I took half the deck of cards and arranged them on the table and we turned them over two at a time. The goal was to find a match: two kings, two sevens, or two aces. You get the idea. It’s...

Are You Living or Existing?

I work in a hospital. As a chaplain, I am in a unique position to see people of all ages who struggle with their health. I also see much more. I see people who struggle with relationships, finances, self-esteem, self-love, direction, and discipline to take care of...

A Word of Encouragement to Medical Personnel

A Word of Encouragement to Medical Personnel I work as a full-time chaplain at a hospital in the North Georgia area.  Every day that I go to work, I am greeted by posters drawn by children encouraging the staff as they continue to battle COVID-19. Back during the...