Character in Story and Scripture
In To Kill a Mockingbird, Atticus Finch embodies strong moral character. He lives with integrity, practices courage in defending Tom Robinson despite community backlash, treats opponents with respect, and upholds fairness and justice. His strength lies not in perfection, but in consistent moral choices—even when costly.
The Bible also offers a powerful example in Joseph (Genesis 37–50). He showed integrity by resisting temptation, faithfulness in prison, forgiveness toward his brothers, and wisdom in managing Egypt’s resources. His story reminds us that spiritual character is tested through suffering, shaped by faith, and revealed through mercy and humility.
Proverbs 22:1 sums it up well: “A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold.”
What Is Character?
Character is the collection of moral, ethical, and mental qualities that shape who we are and how we behave. When compromised, it affects relationships, decision-making, and inner peace.
Alcoholism is especially dangerous because it erodes character. To protect the addiction, people often make choices they know are wrong.
Common Character Defects in Alcoholism
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Dishonesty – lying, hiding, breaking promises.
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Denial – minimizing consequences, refusing to face reality.
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Selfishness – prioritizing drinking over responsibilities.
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Resentment – blaming others, feeling victimized.
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Pride / Ego – unwillingness to admit weakness.
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Fear – of being exposed or living without alcohol.
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Anger / Irritability – explosive temper, low tolerance.
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Impulsivity – risky, reckless behavior.
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Neglect of Responsibility – failing family, work, or financial duties.
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Manipulation – using charm, guilt, or excuses.
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Isolation – withdrawing from community and loved ones.
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Shame and Guilt – fueling the cycle of addiction.
Step Six: A Journey of Humility
Step Six of Alcoholics Anonymous says: “Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.”
This step is tricky. Many relapse here because they are not yet fully ready—they still love alcohol more than freedom. Their character flaws do not yet disturb them enough. People often say, “They haven’t hit bottom yet.”
But not everyone needs a near-death crisis to awaken. For many, the turning point is simply looking in the mirror and not liking who they’ve become.
A Shift in Culture
Encouragingly, more people are rethinking alcohol. A recent Gallup poll found that alcohol use among U.S. adults has dropped to 54%, the lowest in nearly 90 years of surveys. For the first time, more Americans believe even moderate drinking is harmful to health. (Gallup Report)
Despite ads that glamorize beer, many now realize that life is more abundant with a glass of sweet tea, lemonade, or sparkling water with lime. No one ruins their character over a glass of iced tea.
Facing the Truth with God
When alcoholics gain clarity, guilt and shame often rush in, threatening to paralyze. That’s why Step Six is about humility before God. It’s about admitting defects while affirming one’s worth, value, and potential for healing.
King David, after his own moral failure, prayed:
“The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit;
a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise.” (Psalm 51:17)
Step Six is about coming to God with that broken and contrite heart—allowing Him to restore character piece by piece.
Patience in Recovery
God can heal defects faster than we can prove to others we’ve changed. Building a “good name” takes time. Trust is slow to rebuild. Like growing a pineapple, character takes years to develop but can be destroyed quickly. Once restored, it must be protected and valued.
To walk this step faithfully, the alcoholic should:
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List their character defects.
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Review where life has been inconsistent with values.
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Acknowledge that God already knows all hidden flaws.
The good news? God also offers grace, hope, and restoration.
Are You Ready?
Step Six asks a powerful question: Are you ready to let God remove your defects of character?
Are you ready to change? To submit your will to His? To walk in freedom and integrity?
God is ready. The question is—are you entirely ready?